We can make mistakes at any age. Some mistakes we make are about money. But most mistakes are about people. "Did Jerry really care when I broke up with Helen?" "When I got that great job, did Jim really feel good about it as a friend? Or did he envy my luck?" "And why didn’t Paul pick up that he was friendly just because I had a car?" When we look back, doubts like these can make us feel bad. But when we look back, it’s too late.
Why do we go wrong about our friends – or our enemies? Sometimes what people say hides their real meaning. And if we don’t really listen we miss the feelings behind the words. Suppose someone tells you,"You’re a lucky dog." that’s being friendly. But "lucky dog"? There’s a bit of envy in those words. Maybe he doesn’t see it himself. But bringing in the "dog" bit puts you down a little. What he may be saying is that he doesn’t think you deserve your luck.
"Just think of all the things you have to be thankful for" is another noise that says one thing and means another. It could mean that the speaker is trying to get you to see your problem as part of your life as a whole. But is he? Wrapped up in this phrase is the thought that your problem isn’t important. It’s telling you to think of all the starving people in the world when you haven’t got a date for Saturday night.
How can you tell the real meaning behind someone’s words? One way is to take a good look at the person while talking. Do his words fit the way he looks? Does what he says agree with the tone of voice? His posture? The look in his eyes? Stop and think. The minute you spend thinking about the real meaning of what people say to you may save another mistake.
1.In the first paragraph, the writer recalls some things that happened between some friends and they __________.
A.think it was a mistake to have broken up with their girl friends
B.feel happy, thinking of how nice their friends were to them in the past
C.feel very sorry that their friends didn't help them and let them down
D.feel they may not have "read" their friends' true feelings correctly
2.In this passage, the writer tries to tell us how to __________.
A.a(chǎn)void mistakes about money and our friends
B.a(chǎn)void mistakes in understanding what people really want to tell us
C."size up" people in a more scientific and meaningful way
D.keep people friendly without trusting them any more
3.While we are listening to a person, the important thing for us is __________.
A.to check his words against his manner, tone of voice and posture
B.to notice his tone of voice, his posture, and the look in his eyes
C.to listen to how he pronounces his words in front of you
D.not to believe what he says in any situation or any time
4.According to this passage, the underlined phrase "puts you down" can be replaced by another phrase "__________".
A.reduces you to silence B.presses you down
C.makes you humble D.makes you sad
1.D
2.B
3.A
4.C
【解析】
試題分析:這篇文章這是一篇典型的現(xiàn)象分析類議論文。講的是人們會犯錯,為什么會犯錯,怎么避免。
1.推理題,根據(jù)第一段作者所羅列的一些事實來判斷作者的態(tài)度。根據(jù)A,C,D的選項, A說作者認為跟他的女友分手是個錯誤,B說作者感到高興,他朋友們對他很好。C說作者感到傷心,朋友們讓他失望了。這幾個選項都太片面,只是針對其中的一個事例來做出判斷,不全面,所以選D,他認為他也許沒有正確地理解朋友們的真實含義。
2.主旨題。根據(jù)我們通過略讀找到的位于段落開頭的三個段落主題句,可以發(fā)現(xiàn)答案是B
3.細節(jié)題,通過瀏覽問題,可以了解這道問題的意圖是詢問如何做的問題,根據(jù)略讀了解到的段落主題,答案應(yīng)該是在最后一段提出建議中尋找,所以答案是A
4.猜詞題:從文章的句子:But bringing in the "dog" bit puts you down a little.可知在話語中加上dog會使你低下。選C
考點:考查生活類短文
點評:這是一篇典型的現(xiàn)象分析類議論文。通過瀏覽文章每個段落的開頭字段“we can make mistakes, why, how”,可以初步判斷是一篇提出問題,分析問題和解決問題的議論文。 通過略讀主題句,我們可以分別在每個段落的開頭位置找到三個段落的主題句,由此可以明確這篇文章是典型的分析-建議類型的議論文,以及了解每個段落的段落大意
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