20.Ask any kid,and you'll likely hear that time spent with friends is the coolest and most important part of the school day.Educators,as well,acknowledge that making friends is one of the most valuable things children do as they learn and grow.But many parents are perplexed by their children's social lives,wondering how to help their kids cope with the challenges,heartbreaks,and the joys of making friends,losing them,and making friends again.
"Friendships help children gradually learn to be independent,contributing members of a community and it's just as important as their academic growth"notes Diane Levin,Ph.D.,author of"Remote Control Childhood."However,it's a slow process.There are many social skills to learn,which advance with age and experience,trial and error,and experiencing the satisfaction that comes from contributing to an
ongoing friendship."
"Friendship starts as soon as children can crawl off their parents'laps over to another child,"adds Michael Thompson,Ph.D.,co-author of her life with you to her life with her friends,but who their friends are,how they interact with them,and how popular they are,is something parents have only limited control over."
Experts on children's behavior say that problems like jealousies,breakups,bullying (恐嚇) and teasing account for a big part of what parents,kids and teachers talk about,and what parents worry about.
Get insights into how children's friendships develop and how parents can help,if needed,and find ways to determine if your child is at risk for serious social problems or simply suffering from real (but common) social challenges.
28.While staying at school,kids usually feel thatB.
A.making friends is the most important thing
B.staying with friends is a very good experience
C.communicating with friends is a great challenge
D.they can't grow well without friends around them
29.What does the underlined word"perplexed"mean in Paragraph One?C
A.Encouraged
B.Touched
C.Puzzled
D.Attracted
30.Why is the effect of friendships on children's growth a slow process?D
A.They have to focus on academic subjects.
B.They are too young to benefit from friendships.
C.They often make mistakes while making friends.
D.They cannot master all social skills in one day.
31.Which of the following suggests the beginning of friendship?C
A.Children don't stay on parents'lap any longer.
B.Children get out of the control of their parents.
C.Children leave their parents for other kids willingly.
D.Children don't share their stories with their parents.
分析 本文是一篇人生感悟類閱讀,屬于議論文,主要講述了在學校時,孩子通常感覺和朋友在一起是一個好的經(jīng)歷,但是許多家長為孩子的社交生活而困惑.本文以此展開討論,主要講述了孩子的交友問題.
解答 28.B.細節(jié)理解題.根據(jù)Ask any kid,and you'll likely hear that time spent with friends is the coolest and most important part of the school day.Educators,as well,acknowledge that making friends is one of the most valuable things children do as they learn and grow.可知,在學校時,孩子通常感覺和朋友在一起是一個好的經(jīng)歷.故選B.
29.C.詞義猜測題.根據(jù)上下文內(nèi)容可知,But many parents are perplexed by their children's social lives,句意為但是許多家長為孩子的社交生活而困惑.故perplexed意為困惑.故選C.
30.D.細節(jié)理解題.根據(jù)However,it's a slow process.There are many social skills to learn,which advance with age and experience,trial and error,and experiencing the satisfaction that comes from contributing to an ongoing friendship可知,但是這是一個緩慢的過程.有許多社會技能學習,隨著年齡和經(jīng)驗,嘗試和錯誤,以及體驗到對促進持續(xù)友誼而產(chǎn)生的滿足感.故選D.
31.C.細節(jié)理解題.根據(jù)Friendship starts as soon as children can crawl off their parents'laps over to another child可知,一旦孩子們可以脫離父母,自愿來到另一個孩子身邊,友誼就開始了.故選C.
點評 本文是一篇人生感悟類閱讀,題目涉及多道主旨大意題,細節(jié)理解題,推理判斷題.做題時學生應仔細閱讀原文,把握文章主要內(nèi)容,聯(lián)系文章上下文內(nèi)容并結(jié)合所給選項含義,從中選出正確答案,一定要做到有理有據(jù),切忌胡亂猜測.