Question

【題目】根據(jù)短文內(nèi)容，從短文后的選項(xiàng)中選出能填入空白處的最佳選項(xiàng)。選項(xiàng)中有兩項(xiàng)為多余選項(xiàng)。

When a friend is sad about the loss of a loved one, it’s easy to feel helpless. Sometimes we think we’re doing the right thing by trying to cheer them up, or letting them know that they should try to move on. 【1】 So here are some ways to help you support your friend in time of need.

1. Recognize the stages of sadness.

Most people suffering a loss will go through these stages, often in no particular order: denial (拒絕), bargaining, anger, depression and acceptance. 【2】 The more familiar you are with these stages, the better you’ll be to support your friend.

2. 【3】

We are often ready to praise the person who appears to be dealing strongly with a loss. The problem is that we need to allow them to be human and vulnerable (脆弱的) sometimes too. After all, there’s strength in letting out your feelings from time to time.

3. Ask them what they need.

It’s normal to feel you can guess what your friend needs. Because we’re all different, it is best to ask them what it is that you can do for them. If they say “I don’t know” or “nothing”, don’t walk away or worry. 【4】 And let them know that you will be there when they think of something.

Finally, keep in mind that loss is not just felt through death. It can be the loss of a job, the loss of hope or expectation and so much more. 【5】 And your role as a supporter is very important and helpful.

A. Be the person who follows up.

B. Each one is healthy and necessary.

C. Loss is a difficult thing to work through.

D. Don’t always tell them how strong they are.

E. Just offer your support in whatever way you can.

F. Your caring will be appreciated and provide much comfort.

G. But those efforts often put pressure on them and leave them feeling useless.

Answer 1

【答案】

【1】G

【2】B

【3】D

【4】E

【5】C

【解析】

試題分析：本文屬于教育類閱讀，當(dāng)我們的朋友遇見(jiàn)困難需要幫助的時(shí)候，我們要使用適當(dāng)?shù)姆椒ㄈ�幫助他。文章中就給出了一些具體的幫助朋友的建議。

【1】G 根據(jù)橫線前一句Sometimes we think we’re doing the right thing by trying to cheer them up, or letting them know that they should try to move on.可知當(dāng)朋友悲傷難過(guò)的時(shí)候，我們總是要鼓勵(lì)他們振作起來(lái)。但是我們的鼓勵(lì)有時(shí)候會(huì)給他們帶來(lái)更大的壓力并他們感覺(jué)更無(wú)助。我們需要更有效的方法幫助他們。所以G項(xiàng)“But those efforts often put pressure on them and leave them feeling useless.”符合上下文串聯(lián)。

【2】B 根據(jù)橫線前句Most people suffering a loss will go through these stages接著很多遭受痛苦的人會(huì)經(jīng)歷多個(gè)不同的階段。我們需要理解每一個(gè)階段，因?yàn)槊恳粋�(gè)階段都是健康并且正常必要的。故B項(xiàng)正確。

【3】D 根據(jù)本段前兩句We are often ready to praise the person who appears to be dealing strongly with a loss. The problem is that we need to allow them to be human and vulnerable (脆弱的) sometimes too.我們總是說(shuō)人們是多么堅(jiān)強(qiáng)，實(shí)際上我們要承認(rèn)人總是脆弱的�？偸切枰�他人的幫助的。所以D項(xiàng)“Don’t always tell them how strong they are.”是本段的中心思想。

【4】E 根據(jù)橫線前兩句Because we’re all different, it is best to ask them what it is that you can do for them. If they say “I don’t know” or “nothing”, don’t walk away or worry.人與人是不一樣的，最好要詢問(wèn)他們你能夠?yàn)樗麄冏鲂┦裁础Ｋ麄兛倳?huì)讓我們不要擔(dān)心。但是我們要為他們做我們能做的事情，來(lái)讓他們知道我們永遠(yuǎn)都陪伴他們。故E項(xiàng)正確。

【5】C 根據(jù)橫線前兩句Finally, keep in mind that loss is not just felt through death. It can be the loss of a job, the loss of hope or expectation and so much more.生活中的損失有很多種，而且這些損失是很難經(jīng)歷的。我們需要在朋友需要幫助的時(shí)候一直在他們的身邊。故C項(xiàng)“Loss is a difficult thing to work through.”符合上下文串聯(lián)。